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Legal questions Florida families ask about an aging parent
Plain answers for Citrus, Hernando, and Pasco County. This page covers power of attorney, lady bird deeds, what Medicaid can take back after it paid for someone's nursing home care, what happens to the house when a parent dies, probate, and guardianship.
Every answer was checked against Florida law. None of it is a recommendation for your own situation. Last reviewed: September 14, 2026.
The short version:
- Can I get power of attorney for my mother if she has dementia? Only if she still understands what she's signing. A power of attorney is the paper that lets someone else handle her money and legal business, and she has to sign it herself. If she can no longer understand it, nobody can sign it for her. The only option left is guardianship, which means asking a judge to appoint someone to make decisions for her.
- When does a power of attorney take effect in Florida? The day it's signed. Florida stopped allowing the kind that "kicks in later" back in 2011.
- What is a lady bird deed in Florida? A deed that passes your house to your family without going through probate court, the court process that settles what someone owned when they died. It doesn't cause a Medicaid penalty, such as a waiting period before Medicaid will pay for nursing home care. But it can fail, and a failed deed can't be fixed after the person dies.
- If Medicaid pays for a nursing home, can it take the house? Usually not. Florida can try to get some of what it spent back after your parent dies, but only from property that goes through probate court. Anything with a joint owner or a named beneficiary skips probate and is out of reach. And if your parent leaves a spouse, a child under 21, or a disabled child, Florida can't collect at all.
- Where can a senior get free legal help in Citrus, Hernando or Pasco County? Anyone 60 or older in Florida can call the Senior Legal Helpline at 1-888-895-7873. Each county also has a legal aid office, listed near the bottom of this page.
Power of attorney for a parent
How do I get power of attorney for an elderly parent in Florida?
Your parent has to sign it. You can't get power of attorney for someone else, and you can't sign it for them.
A power of attorney is a paper where your parent names someone to handle their money and legal business. In Florida it has to be signed in front of two witnesses and a notary, or it isn't valid.
Your parent also has to understand what they're signing at the moment they sign it. If they can't, the paper isn't valid either. That's the whole reason to do this early. More on that in the next answer.
Can I get power of attorney for my mother if she has dementia?
Maybe. It depends on how far along it is, not on the diagnosis.
Florida doesn't ask what disease someone has. It asks whether they understood the document when they signed it. Someone in the early stages of dementia may still understand a power of attorney on a good day. Someone further along may not.
A lawyer will talk with your mother before letting her sign, to make sure she understands. If she doesn't, the lawyer won't let it go forward, and the only remaining option is guardianship, covered further down this page.
Where do I get a power of attorney form in Florida?
There's no free state form for this one. Florida gives away free forms for the health care papers, the living will and the health care surrogate (the paper that names who makes medical decisions for you), but not for the financial power of attorney.
The reason is that Florida law is picky about the wording. Each power has to be spelled out. A form that says "I give all powers" gives none of them. And some powers, like making gifts or changing who inherits an account, have to be initialed one at a time.
Most families have a lawyer draw it up. The Florida Bar publishes a free consumer guide that explains what a power of attorney does, and our page on the legal papers every senior should have covers the free health care forms and where to get them.
When does a power of attorney take effect in Florida?
The day it's signed. The person your parent names can act for them right away.
Some people expect a power of attorney to sit in a drawer and only start working later, if the parent becomes unable to make decisions. Florida stopped allowing that kind on October 1, 2011. One signed before that date still works the old way. One signed after that date and written to start later does nothing at all.
So the person your parent names gets real authority the day the paper is signed. Pick someone you'd trust with the checkbook today.
It ends the moment your parent dies. After that, the will and the probate court take over, not the person named in the power of attorney.
Lady bird deeds
What is a lady bird deed in Florida?
A lady bird deed is a way to pass your house to someone when you die without it going through probate court. Its formal name is an enhanced life estate deed.
You sign it now, naming who gets the house when you die. Until then, nothing changes. You still own the house. You can sell it, mortgage it, or change your mind and name someone else. The person you named has no rights until you're gone.
It only covers the house. Bank accounts, cars, and everything else still go through probate unless they have their own arrangement.
Is a lady bird deed legal in Florida?
Yes, in the sense that they're used all the time and the companies that check ownership when a house is sold accept them. But no Florida law creates or governs them.
The Florida Bar says there is "no Florida Statute governing such conveyances and scant judicial authority supporting the practice." They work because real estate lawyers have used them for years and agree on how they work. Most other states have a deed for this written into their laws. Florida doesn't.
Do I need a lawyer for a lady bird deed, or can I file my own?
Nothing in Florida law stops you from doing it yourself. It takes two witnesses and a notary, and recording it with the county costs about $11.
Start by asking whether you need one at all. If a spouse survives you, or a child under 18, the house already passes to them protected. The deed adds nothing you don't already have.
If you do need one, know that it can fail without warning, and a failed deed can't be fixed after the person dies. Three of the common ways:
| Your situation | What happens |
|---|---|
| You're married and leave the home to anyone but your spouse | Florida's constitution doesn't allow it. The deed doesn't pass the house unless your spouse signs a specific waiver. |
| You have a child under 18 | Florida doesn't let you leave the home away from a minor child at all. There's no waiver. |
| The person you named owes money from a court judgment or a tax lien | Those debts can't touch your house while you're alive. The moment you die, they attach to it. |
Those are the cases where a lawyer earns the fee. One Florida law firm lists $400 to $1,000 to prepare one. That's one firm's price, not a survey.
Before you file, call your county property appraiser and ask whether the deed affects your property tax break, the homestead exemption and the Save Our Homes cap. Lawyers believe it doesn't. We couldn't find that in writing, and one phone call to Citrus, Hernando, or Pasco settles it for you.
If Medicaid paid for a nursing home
If Medicaid pays for a nursing home, can it take the house?
Usually not.
Here's why Medicaid is involved at all. Nursing home care runs thousands of dollars a month. Medicare only pays for a short stay after a hospital visit. When the savings run out, Medicaid pays, if your parent qualifies. Our page on paying for senior care covers who qualifies. Florida keeps track of what it spent and can try to get some of it back after the person dies.
But Florida can only collect by filing a claim in probate court. And Florida law says it can't collect at all if your parent leaves a spouse, a child under 21, or a blind or permanently disabled child. It also can't touch a home that Florida's constitution protects from creditors, which is most family homes that pass to a spouse or heirs.
Is the house protected if my father is in a nursing home on Medicaid?
Often, yes, before anyone signs anything.
While he's alive, the house doesn't count against him for Medicaid as long as he intends to return to it, even if he never does. After he dies, if your mother survives him, Florida can't collect. And the house passes to her free of his debts under Florida's homestead rules.
The deeper page linked above walks through each of those steps and the situations where they don't apply.
Will a lady bird deed cause a Medicaid penalty?
No. Florida's Medicaid manual says that when you keep this kind of deed, "no transfer has occurred."
The penalty people worry about is the five-year look-back. When you apply for Medicaid, Florida checks the past 60 months for property you gave away. If it finds any, there's a waiting period before Medicaid pays for nursing home care. A lady bird deed doesn't count, because you still own the house.
A regular life estate deed is different. That one counts as giving property away, and it can cause the penalty.
What happens to the house when a parent dies
Who gets the house in Florida if there's no will?
First, check the deed. If your parents owned the house together as a married couple, it usually goes to the surviving spouse automatically, with no probate and no will needed. The same is true if the deed names another joint owner "with right of survivorship."
If the house was in your parent's name alone, Florida decides who gets it. And for the family home, Florida has its own rules that override even a will.
If your parent leaves a spouse and children, the spouse gets the right to live in the house for life. The children get it after that. The spouse can choose a different deal instead: own half the house outright, with the children owning the other half. That choice has to be made within six months of the death, and it can't be extended or undone.
For everything else your parent owned, the spouse gets all of it if all the children are the spouse's too. If either of them has a child from another relationship, the spouse gets half and the children split the rest.
Is a handwritten will valid in Florida?
Only if two witnesses signed it, the same as a typed one. An unwitnessed handwritten will fails completely. Florida doesn't accept spoken wills either.
Probate
How long does probate take in Florida?
The Florida Bar says even the simplest estate has to stay open three months, and that a simple case takes about five or six months.
Probate is the court process that settles what someone owned when they died. Creditors get three months from the first newspaper notice to file claims, which is why nothing closes faster than that. Full probate takes longer, and in almost every case a Florida lawyer has to handle it. Our page on settling a home after a death covers what to do in the meantime.
Does everything have to go through probate in Florida?
No. A lot of what a person owns skips probate, because it already has a built-in way to pass to the next person:
- bank and investment accounts with a joint owner, or with a named beneficiary (sometimes called payable-on-death or transfer-on-death)
- life insurance and retirement accounts, which go to whoever is named as the beneficiary
- a house owned jointly with a right of survivorship, or with a lady bird deed
Only what's left, owned in your parent's name alone with nobody named, goes through probate. For many families that's less than they expect. And Florida's Medicaid payback only reaches what goes through probate, so property that skips it is out of reach.
Two cautions. For a house, the deed has to say "with right of survivorship" or it doesn't happen. Two names on a deed without those words means each person's share goes through probate. And adding a child's name to a house or an account can count as giving property away for Medicaid purposes, and puts that property within reach of the child's creditors. Ask a lawyer before doing it for that reason.
Is there a faster way to do probate in Florida?
Yes, called summary administration. As of 2026 you can use it when the estate is worth $150,000 or less, after subtracting the protected home, or when the person has been dead more than two years.
That number changed this year. It was $75,000 through 2025. Older articles, and The Florida Bar's own booklet, still say $75,000. The current figure is in Florida Statutes section 735.201.
Since the protected home doesn't count toward the total, an estate can qualify even when the house is worth more than $150,000.
Guardianship
What happens if my parent can't make decisions and never signed anything?
The family has to ask a court to appoint a guardian. Guardianship is a judge giving someone the legal power to make decisions for a person who can't.
Within five days the court picks three people to examine your parent. One has to be a psychiatrist or another doctor. They report back within fifteen days. The court gives your parent their own lawyer, every time. If most of the examiners find nothing wrong, the case is dismissed.
A judge can't appoint a guardian if there's a less restrictive option, like a valid power of attorney signed while your parent could still decide. That's the main reason to sign the papers while you still can.
What rights does a person lose under guardianship in Florida?
Only the ones the judge names. Rights come away one at a time, not all at once.
Some can never be taken: the right to a lawyer, to privacy, to have visitors, and to ask the court to give their rights back. Some can be taken but not given to anyone else, like the right to vote and to marry. Anything the court doesn't name, your parent keeps.
How much does guardianship cost in Florida?
We can't give you a number. Florida caps what the clerk charges to file, currently no more than $395. Lawyer and guardian fees are set case by case by the judge, with no cap. That's why nobody can quote you a total ahead of time.
Free legal help
Where can a senior get free legal help in Citrus, Hernando or Pasco County?
Start with the state helpline. Which legal aid office covers you after that depends on your county.
Florida Senior Legal Helpline: free legal advice by phone for Florida residents 60 and older, in all three counties. Covers probate, advance directives, Medicaid and Medicare, housing, consumer problems, and elder abuse. Not criminal cases, traffic, or injury. They advise, but they don't go to court with you.
1-888-895-7873
Monday to Friday, 9:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. There are income limits, but they don't count your savings. To call for someone else, you need their power of attorney.
| County | Legal aid office | Phone |
|---|---|---|
| Citrus | Community Legal Services | 1-800-405-1417 |
| Hernando | Community Legal Services | 1-800-405-1417 |
| Pasco | Bay Area Legal Services | 1-813-232-1343 |
Community Legal Services usually sets its income limit at 125 percent of the federal poverty guidelines. In some counties and some cases, older clients aren't held to it.
Your Elder Helpline can point you to local programs too. Call 1-800-262-2243 for Citrus and Hernando, or 727-217-8111 for Pasco.
How do I report a senior being taken advantage of in Florida?
Call the Florida Abuse Hotline. It takes reports 24 hours a day, every day of the year.
1-800-962-2873
Press 2 to report abuse, neglect, or financial exploitation of an adult who can't protect themselves. You can also report online at reportabuse.myflfamilies.com. If someone is in danger right now, call 911.
For Medicare fraud or a billing scam, Florida’s free Medicare help program can help at 1-800-963-5337. It’s called SHINE, short for Serving Health Insurance Needs of Elders, and its counselors are volunteers. See our page on SHINE counseling.
Also worth reading
- Medicaid, nursing homes and your house: the payback, the five-year look-back, and which homes are already protected
- Lady bird deeds in Florida: who needs one, how they fail, and the alternatives
- Dying without a will in Florida: who gets the house and everything else
- Guardianship of a parent in Florida: how it works, what it costs, and how to avoid needing it
- The legal papers every senior should have: the living will, health care surrogate, and durable power of attorney, with the free state forms
- What to do when someone dies in Florida: the family's checklist, in order
- How to avoid probate in Florida: what skips probate, what doesn't, and the two ways that backfire
- Will Florida Medicaid pay for care at home?: the long-term care program, the pre-enrollment list, and paying a family caregiver
- Paying for care: Medicaid, veterans’ benefits, and what the programs cover
- After a death: the practical steps in the first few weeks
Sources
- Florida Statutes ch. 709, Part II, powers of attorney: sections 709.2105, 709.2108, 709.2109, 709.2201, 709.2202, 709.2114
- Florida Statutes ch. 744, guardianship: sections 744.331, 744.3215, 744.2005, and 28.2401
- Florida Statutes sections 732.102, 732.401, 732.502, 735.201 (summary administration, amended by ch. 2026-57), 733.702, 733.2121
- Florida Statutes section 409.9101, Medicaid estate recovery, and 42 U.S.C. section 1396p(b)
- Florida Statutes section 732.7025, spousal waiver of the homestead devise restriction
- Florida Statutes section 689.15, right of survivorship in jointly held property
- Florida Constitution, Article X, Section 4, homestead
- Florida Department of Children and Families, Economic Self-Sufficiency Policy Manual sections 1640.0613.01, 1640.0608, and 1640.0543.01
- The Florida Bar, Uniform Title Standards 6.10, 6.11, and 6.12 (June 2019)
- The Florida Bar consumer booklets on powers of attorney, guardianship, and probate
- Florida Department of Elder Affairs, Senior Legal Helpline and Elder Helpline
- Florida Department of Children and Families, Florida Abuse Hotline