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Legal questions Florida families ask about an aging parent

Plain answers for Citrus, Hernando, and Pasco County. This page covers power of attorney, lady bird deeds, what Medicaid can take back after it paid for someone's nursing home care, what happens to the house when a parent dies, probate, and guardianship.

Every answer was checked against Florida law. None of it is a recommendation for your own situation. Last reviewed: September 14, 2026.

The short version:

Can they still understand what they're signing? YES NO They can still sign • Durable power of attorney • Health care surrogate • Living will • Lady bird deed No court involved Guardianship only • A judge decides • Three people examine them • They get their own lawyer • Months, and it's public The papers above are gone
Which papers your parent can still sign depends on whether they still understand them. That can change.

Power of attorney for a parent

How do I get power of attorney for an elderly parent in Florida?

Your parent has to sign it. You can't get power of attorney for someone else, and you can't sign it for them.

A power of attorney is a paper where your parent names someone to handle their money and legal business. In Florida it has to be signed in front of two witnesses and a notary, or it isn't valid.

Your parent also has to understand what they're signing at the moment they sign it. If they can't, the paper isn't valid either. That's the whole reason to do this early. More on that in the next answer.

Can I get power of attorney for my mother if she has dementia?

Maybe. It depends on how far along it is, not on the diagnosis.

Florida doesn't ask what disease someone has. It asks whether they understood the document when they signed it. Someone in the early stages of dementia may still understand a power of attorney on a good day. Someone further along may not.

A lawyer will talk with your mother before letting her sign, to make sure she understands. If she doesn't, the lawyer won't let it go forward, and the only remaining option is guardianship, covered further down this page.

Where do I get a power of attorney form in Florida?

There's no free state form for this one. Florida gives away free forms for the health care papers, the living will and the health care surrogate (the paper that names who makes medical decisions for you), but not for the financial power of attorney.

The reason is that Florida law is picky about the wording. Each power has to be spelled out. A form that says "I give all powers" gives none of them. And some powers, like making gifts or changing who inherits an account, have to be initialed one at a time.

Most families have a lawyer draw it up. The Florida Bar publishes a free consumer guide that explains what a power of attorney does, and our page on the legal papers every senior should have covers the free health care forms and where to get them.

When does a power of attorney take effect in Florida?

The day it's signed. The person your parent names can act for them right away.

Some people expect a power of attorney to sit in a drawer and only start working later, if the parent becomes unable to make decisions. Florida stopped allowing that kind on October 1, 2011. One signed before that date still works the old way. One signed after that date and written to start later does nothing at all.

So the person your parent names gets real authority the day the paper is signed. Pick someone you'd trust with the checkbook today.

It ends the moment your parent dies. After that, the will and the probate court take over, not the person named in the power of attorney.

Lady bird deeds

What is a lady bird deed in Florida?

A lady bird deed is a way to pass your house to someone when you die without it going through probate court. Its formal name is an enhanced life estate deed.

You sign it now, naming who gets the house when you die. Until then, nothing changes. You still own the house. You can sell it, mortgage it, or change your mind and name someone else. The person you named has no rights until you're gone.

It only covers the house. Bank accounts, cars, and everything else still go through probate unless they have their own arrangement.

Is a lady bird deed legal in Florida?

Yes, in the sense that they're used all the time and the companies that check ownership when a house is sold accept them. But no Florida law creates or governs them.

The Florida Bar says there is "no Florida Statute governing such conveyances and scant judicial authority supporting the practice." They work because real estate lawyers have used them for years and agree on how they work. Most other states have a deed for this written into their laws. Florida doesn't.

Do I need a lawyer for a lady bird deed, or can I file my own?

Nothing in Florida law stops you from doing it yourself. It takes two witnesses and a notary, and recording it with the county costs about $11.

Start by asking whether you need one at all. If a spouse survives you, or a child under 18, the house already passes to them protected. The deed adds nothing you don't already have.

If you do need one, know that it can fail without warning, and a failed deed can't be fixed after the person dies. Three of the common ways:

Your situationWhat happens
You're married and leave the home to anyone but your spouseFlorida's constitution doesn't allow it. The deed doesn't pass the house unless your spouse signs a specific waiver.
You have a child under 18Florida doesn't let you leave the home away from a minor child at all. There's no waiver.
The person you named owes money from a court judgment or a tax lienThose debts can't touch your house while you're alive. The moment you die, they attach to it.

Those are the cases where a lawyer earns the fee. One Florida law firm lists $400 to $1,000 to prepare one. That's one firm's price, not a survey.

Before you file, call your county property appraiser and ask whether the deed affects your property tax break, the homestead exemption and the Save Our Homes cap. Lawyers believe it doesn't. We couldn't find that in writing, and one phone call to Citrus, Hernando, or Pasco settles it for you.

Who needs one and who doesn't, all six ways they fail, and how they compare to a life estate deed and a living trust: Lady bird deeds in Florida.

If Medicaid paid for a nursing home

If Medicaid pays for a nursing home, can it take the house?

Usually not.

Here's why Medicaid is involved at all. Nursing home care runs thousands of dollars a month. Medicare only pays for a short stay after a hospital visit. When the savings run out, Medicaid pays, if your parent qualifies. Our page on paying for senior care covers who qualifies. Florida keeps track of what it spent and can try to get some of it back after the person dies.

But Florida can only collect by filing a claim in probate court. And Florida law says it can't collect at all if your parent leaves a spouse, a child under 21, or a blind or permanently disabled child. It also can't touch a home that Florida's constitution protects from creditors, which is most family homes that pass to a spouse or heirs.

The full answer, including what happens if the house is sold while a parent is on Medicaid, whether Florida can come back after a surviving spouse dies, and where trusts help: Medicaid, nursing homes and your house. If your parent wants care at home instead of a nursing home: Will Florida Medicaid pay for care at home?

Is the house protected if my father is in a nursing home on Medicaid?

Often, yes, before anyone signs anything.

While he's alive, the house doesn't count against him for Medicaid as long as he intends to return to it, even if he never does. After he dies, if your mother survives him, Florida can't collect. And the house passes to her free of his debts under Florida's homestead rules.

The deeper page linked above walks through each of those steps and the situations where they don't apply.

Will a lady bird deed cause a Medicaid penalty?

No. Florida's Medicaid manual says that when you keep this kind of deed, "no transfer has occurred."

The penalty people worry about is the five-year look-back. When you apply for Medicaid, Florida checks the past 60 months for property you gave away. If it finds any, there's a waiting period before Medicaid pays for nursing home care. A lady bird deed doesn't count, because you still own the house.

A regular life estate deed is different. That one counts as giving property away, and it can cause the penalty.

What happens to the house when a parent dies

Who gets the house in Florida if there's no will?

First, check the deed. If your parents owned the house together as a married couple, it usually goes to the surviving spouse automatically, with no probate and no will needed. The same is true if the deed names another joint owner "with right of survivorship."

If the house was in your parent's name alone, Florida decides who gets it. And for the family home, Florida has its own rules that override even a will.

If your parent leaves a spouse and children, the spouse gets the right to live in the house for life. The children get it after that. The spouse can choose a different deal instead: own half the house outright, with the children owning the other half. That choice has to be made within six months of the death, and it can't be extended or undone.

Write the six-month deadline down. A surviving spouse who doesn't know about it loses the choice.

For everything else your parent owned, the spouse gets all of it if all the children are the spouse's too. If either of them has a child from another relationship, the spouse gets half and the children split the rest.

The full order of who inherits, the second-marriage rule with examples, out-of-state wills, and who runs the estate: Dying without a will in Florida.

Is a handwritten will valid in Florida?

Only if two witnesses signed it, the same as a typed one. An unwitnessed handwritten will fails completely. Florida doesn't accept spoken wills either.

If someone has just died and you need the order of what to do, start with what to do when someone dies in Florida: the first day, the first two weeks, and the first months.

Probate

How long does probate take in Florida?

The Florida Bar says even the simplest estate has to stay open three months, and that a simple case takes about five or six months.

Probate is the court process that settles what someone owned when they died. Creditors get three months from the first newspaper notice to file claims, which is why nothing closes faster than that. Full probate takes longer, and in almost every case a Florida lawyer has to handle it. Our page on settling a home after a death covers what to do in the meantime.

Does everything have to go through probate in Florida?

No. A lot of what a person owns skips probate, because it already has a built-in way to pass to the next person:

Only what's left, owned in your parent's name alone with nobody named, goes through probate. For many families that's less than they expect. And Florida's Medicaid payback only reaches what goes through probate, so property that skips it is out of reach.

Two cautions. For a house, the deed has to say "with right of survivorship" or it doesn't happen. Two names on a deed without those words means each person's share goes through probate. And adding a child's name to a house or an account can count as giving property away for Medicaid purposes, and puts that property within reach of the child's creditors. Ask a lawyer before doing it for that reason.

What skips probate and what doesn't, why a will alone doesn't avoid it, and the risks of adding a child to an account or deed: How to avoid probate in Florida.

Is there a faster way to do probate in Florida?

Yes, called summary administration. As of 2026 you can use it when the estate is worth $150,000 or less, after subtracting the protected home, or when the person has been dead more than two years.

That number changed this year. It was $75,000 through 2025. Older articles, and The Florida Bar's own booklet, still say $75,000. The current figure is in Florida Statutes section 735.201.

Since the protected home doesn't count toward the total, an estate can qualify even when the house is worth more than $150,000.

The first steps after a death, and when to bring in a probate lawyer: Settling a home after a death in Florida.

Guardianship

What happens if my parent can't make decisions and never signed anything?

The family has to ask a court to appoint a guardian. Guardianship is a judge giving someone the legal power to make decisions for a person who can't.

Within five days the court picks three people to examine your parent. One has to be a psychiatrist or another doctor. They report back within fifteen days. The court gives your parent their own lawyer, every time. If most of the examiners find nothing wrong, the case is dismissed.

A judge can't appoint a guardian if there's a less restrictive option, like a valid power of attorney signed while your parent could still decide. That's the main reason to sign the papers while you still can.

What rights does a person lose under guardianship in Florida?

Only the ones the judge names. Rights come away one at a time, not all at once.

Some can never be taken: the right to a lawyer, to privacy, to have visitors, and to ask the court to give their rights back. Some can be taken but not given to anyone else, like the right to vote and to marry. Anything the court doesn't name, your parent keeps.

How much does guardianship cost in Florida?

We can't give you a number. Florida caps what the clerk charges to file, currently no more than $395. Lawyer and guardian fees are set case by case by the judge, with no cap. That's why nobody can quote you a total ahead of time.

How the process works step by step, what a guardian has to file, emergency guardianship, and getting rights back: Guardianship of a parent in Florida.

Free legal help

Where can a senior get free legal help in Citrus, Hernando or Pasco County?

Start with the state helpline. Which legal aid office covers you after that depends on your county.

Florida Senior Legal Helpline: free legal advice by phone for Florida residents 60 and older, in all three counties. Covers probate, advance directives, Medicaid and Medicare, housing, consumer problems, and elder abuse. Not criminal cases, traffic, or injury. They advise, but they don't go to court with you.

1-888-895-7873

Monday to Friday, 9:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. There are income limits, but they don't count your savings. To call for someone else, you need their power of attorney.

CountyLegal aid officePhone
CitrusCommunity Legal Services1-800-405-1417
HernandoCommunity Legal Services1-800-405-1417
PascoBay Area Legal Services1-813-232-1343

Community Legal Services usually sets its income limit at 125 percent of the federal poverty guidelines. In some counties and some cases, older clients aren't held to it.

Your Elder Helpline can point you to local programs too. Call 1-800-262-2243 for Citrus and Hernando, or 727-217-8111 for Pasco.

The Florida Bar's Lawyer Referral Service isn't free legal aid. It puts you in touch with a private lawyer. The first half-hour usually costs about $25, and fees after that are up to you and the lawyer. The number is 1-800-342-8011. It's useful. It just isn't free.

How do I report a senior being taken advantage of in Florida?

Call the Florida Abuse Hotline. It takes reports 24 hours a day, every day of the year.

1-800-962-2873

Press 2 to report abuse, neglect, or financial exploitation of an adult who can't protect themselves. You can also report online at reportabuse.myflfamilies.com. If someone is in danger right now, call 911.

For Medicare fraud or a billing scam, Florida’s free Medicare help program can help at 1-800-963-5337. It’s called SHINE, short for Serving Health Insurance Needs of Elders, and its counselors are volunteers. See our page on SHINE counseling.

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